tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8028644345155547233.post7429133845495309756..comments2024-01-31T14:17:09.331-08:00Comments on A fetish leathercrafters journal: What does bondage mean to you?Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13666906089228254197noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8028644345155547233.post-67985342003244694052014-04-28T23:28:30.328-07:002014-04-28T23:28:30.328-07:00No problem, sammy... Thanks for the comment. For m...No problem, sammy... Thanks for the comment. For me, it's definitely about stress relief, and the opportunity to really let go. The best possible therapy "session." =0)Christopherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13666906089228254197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8028644345155547233.post-6337079381978842422014-04-28T04:59:34.854-07:002014-04-28T04:59:34.854-07:00sorry for being so slow catching up on things, but...sorry for being so slow catching up on things, but i just now read this one (and the link).<br /><br />i totally agree with that sentiment: it's a way to get a release that isn't like a normal thing. it's a release from having to be in charge of your own life. i think that's why the nana to kaoru manga hit me so hard: she's super stressed in life, but being able to be tied up and controlled every so often give her the safe way to let the structure imposed on her by society be pushed off, so she can be herself if only for a short time.<br /><br />i just wish everyone could get this if they wanted it. like as a therapy option. :)sammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11812454693478801243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8028644345155547233.post-47323690779913027682014-04-06T23:52:30.038-07:002014-04-06T23:52:30.038-07:00Dear Jim,
I probably won't be the first to te...Dear Jim, <br />I probably won't be the first to tell you, but you sound like a lucky man to have Wendy! And I'm sure she feels the same way about you, too. I'm also fortunate to have a great life partner and to have many of my deepest darkest dreams made real. And (better yet) more to come...Christopherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13666906089228254197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8028644345155547233.post-36364329402048533962014-04-05T07:22:25.958-07:002014-04-05T07:22:25.958-07:00Wendy and I are extremely fortunate that our syner...Wendy and I are extremely fortunate that our synergy fits perfectly with our needs and desires. When I ask "tighter?" or "More?" the answer is usually "Yessss." And certainly there is different bondage for our different times and moods. Sometimes it is full leather encasement with a light touch of my hands or fingertips. Other times restrictive straps and torments, and the sobs and cries that go along with being used. Everyone is different, folks. If you are lucky enough to have a partner(s) that knows you and your mind, and it fits well with what they need.... Mannn! Good on you! Jim (justjimandwendy) justjim andwendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09904220977050597580noreply@blogger.com